Use an escort directory site to search for an escort
Try narrowing your search to the type of escort you’re looking for. Pair your search with terms like “mature,” “blond,” or “VIP” to find a specific type of service or escort.
Remember, escorting is legal as long as you’re paying for companionship, not sex. The moment you pay someone for illicit or promiscuous acts, you’re participating in the illegal activity of prostitution.
Before making contact with an escort or agency, use FindLaw.com’s database to look into your country, state, and county’s laws on prostitution and escorts.
There are plenty of escort sites you can use to find a service you’re looking for. Simply search “escorts near me” online, or scroll through sites like Tryst, Switter, Slixa, Eros, or Escort Directory.
Look for ads about escort agencies online or in magazines
Escorts and their agencies often advertise their services on adult websites or in the back of explicit magazines. Agencies can help pair you with an escort that’ll fit your needs. Seek out these agencies if you’re looking for recommendations or assistance when it comes to selecting an escort.
Agencies may cost a bit more than independent escorts because you’re paying for their customer service on top of the escort’s time.
Set a budget for what you’re willing to pay
When you hire an escort, you’re paying them to spend time with you. Most escorts charge by the hour, but this depends on their services and whether they work for an agency. Prices also vary based on location, so you could be spending $1,000 for one night or between $100 and $300 an hour. Knowing your budget can help you pick an escort that fits within your means.
If you find an escort you like, contact them to ask about their prices, especially since it can vary depending on where you are and what the appointment entails. Keep in mind that escorting services are legal until sexual activity is paid for.
Consider factoring a tip for the escort into your budget.
Look your escort up online before booking an appointment
Even when you hire through an agency, it’s always best to learn about who you’re meeting up with first. Escort scams are real, so search their name online and reverse search their photos to make sure they’re the real deal.
Read reviews of the escort’s services on sites like The Erotic Review.
Confirm the age of your escort, as there are many sex trafficking operations of minors under 18 disguised as escort services.
Most agencies do quick searches of clients to protect their escorts, so don’t feel bad about looking them up too!
Make an appointment with your escort
Once you’ve found the perfect escort, schedule an appointment with them. Discuss a date, time, and meeting place. Tell your escort what you want to do during the appointment (watch a movie, go to a restaurant, etc.), so they know what to expect. If the escort is comfortable with everything and all the logistics are worked out, set the date.
Keep your meeting friendly and platonic to avoid accusations of prostitution and stay within the means of the law.
